We use the word constant constantly. We also use the word constantly constantly.
In algebra, a constant is a number on its own, or sometimes a letter such as a, b, or c to stand for a fixed number. If "it" is not a constant then "it" is a variable. This sounds clear enough to be understood even by the most mathematically challenged. I mean, I get it, and that is no small mathematical task.
So, what's my point?
My point is that I wish events, people, places, actions, interactions, etc. could be constant, but but I understand that is not the way the world works. The world, our lives and the lives of others are in a constant state of flux. (There is the word constant again.) Just when we conclude that all is figured out, neatly in place and tidily put away, the universe proves that it is in control - not us. What we thought was a constant has now become a variable, being replaced by other rituals, procedures, actions, interactions and words and just when we become comfortable with those, a shake-up will occur and our comfort zones will become redefined.
Is there no sacred place where a constant can stay constant? I'll argue that the answer is "no". A friendship is ever-evolving - sometimes to the point of extinction, a marriage is (and, perhaps, should be) a liquid state where stagnation has no place, and even our faith in whatever deity we choose does not remain the same. Hopefully, a job does not become static because job-boredom can be a yoke around the neck that translates into misery and even poor health.
I say let's celebrate positive constants like joy for and pride of our children, the love of grandchildren, our core faiths and beliefs, long-term relationships, friendships, sightings of North American Cardinals, gift-giving, kittens, puppies, poetry, music and the satisfaction that comes from a job well done.
Those are constants I'll keep.
Merci, William
Ancora imparo
